Category: Life

Are you really giving the best? The Ego & Subconscious Cop-out

Do you do YOUR best or do you do THE best? Listen to yourself and others when they talk about doing something well. Most of the time you will hear them say they will do THEIR best. However, is their best the best that can be done? I think not. I think that the “I…

Psychosis and Losing One’s Mind: Where, when, how, why does it begin?

I came across some material on psychosis and decided to contemplate it. Could I have it? Would I have it? This questioning is the normal state of affairs for me. I’m someone with many planets and points in Virgo plus one Libra (8th house) and I analyze myself, others, and environment for the betterment of…

Why clumsiness / accidents occurs: A Psychic perspective

I was asked why clumsiness occurs. My response to that is clumsiness, from a psychic perspective, is a result of negative thoughts. These negative thoughts usually are about other people or situations that one *feels* should have been — could have been — avoided. Also, it’s likely to be about not taking responsibility for one’s…

Mental Health: ADD / ADHD Discoveries

The cause to error and delayed goals is too much curiosity and creativity. If an ADDer just focused on the task at hand rather than being curious about “what else there is” or “what could be” they would be more likely to be accurate and reach goals in a timely manner. Therefore the ADD brain is a “futuristic” brain…

Is Hobbyist a Dirty Word? Are you are professional Tarot Reader or a Hobbyist?

By pure definition of what “professional” means, one could be considered “professional” in the way that you approach your readings in a “professional” manner but not likely a “professional reader” in the classical sense. What does that mean? Generally speaking, working your skills in a professional manner indicates you want to make a living (part…

Communication: Courtroom, lawyer, defendant, plaintfiff?

Some people communicate as if they were in a court of law and the person they are speaking with is their judge. They feel as if they need to explain themselves, defend themselves to this perceived “judge”. What they really need to understand is that they are not being tried in a court of law;…

Roots: Learning astrology & just plain learning — a dedication and an invitation

With Jupiter in Libra, 9th house, I only started serious astrological studies (May / June 2010) when I was serendipitously introduced to a friend in the UK (Sun Libra 3rd house, His Sun Conjunct My Jupiter 3rd & 9th house total merge) who was just as enamoured with learning, communicating, and delving deeply into the unknown as I was.

Saturn’s Test: Astrological squares in aspect — How to overcome them and get on with it.

Laugh in the face of squares or the squares’ boss will laugh at you. In astrology there are various energies (aspects) that occur when planets and points connect (at particular degrees, angles). It’s the “Hey, I see you and I’m now deciding on what I’m going to do with you”.  One of these aspects is…

Life Skills: Why do relationships stop working? Why did my boyfriend or girlfriend, wife or husband break up with me? Why did I break up with them?

There are many reasons why relationships run their course. One reason has to do with strengths, weaknesses and the lack of appreciation and awareness. If you are the partner with a strength in an area and your partner has a weakness but does not appreciate your strength, that will eat away at you. If you…

Limerance, Getting Over a Break-up, How to Get Over Breaking Up, How to Heal From a Broken Heart

In my practice and on a regular basis I’m exposed to lovers remorse, lovers shunned, and just plain unhappy lovers. I’m no stranger to the joys and scars that loving someone can produce.

It’s my focus and joy to help clients see what happened, what is happening, and what will happen based on the current situation.

While this article is focused on limerant behaviour, the major cause for it and most importantly how to get over a fixation or misplaced love for another person, it may also be useful for anyone trying to get over someone.