Synastry & Natal: The Romeo & Juliet Aspect – Venus Square Saturn in LOVE – Part One
| February 12, 2011 | Filled under Astrology, Aspects, Natal, Synastry |
♀ â˜Â ♄ I can’t have the love that I want. The love I don’t want, I want. I want to love. I don’t want the love I can have. I don’t want to love. This love isn’t for me. Eventually, I might give my love. Love comes with hoops and hurdles. I feel unloved. An itch you can’t scratch.
Venus Square Saturn is an astrological aspect that can show in a natal birth chart or it can be a combined energy that occurs between the native and another or others.
This aspect gives a cold chill, when faced with love, to the native or relationship and any harmonious compatibility that may be present just adds to the chill factor. Because if there are other aspects in the chart that cause hot chemistry, the native or natives are more likely to not want to get involved and open up to what is perceived as a Pandora’s Box. In fact, sabotage becomes almost a sure thing. A dampening after a quickening of love feelings is what often happens. Excuses will be made, and delays will almost seem as if on purpose. This aspect pushes more than it pulls. Love doesn’t seem to be on the radar of the native or the individual(s) and more than anything it’s because of fear. This aspect feels like winter or ice, Venus Capricorn or Aquarius, and Saturn Libra.
Natal Venus Square Saturn
- Not feeling that love is for you to have.
- Not getting physical and enjoying the pleasures of the body.
- Feeling too old, serious, full of responsibilities, or fear to be in-love
- A late bloomer in love, romance, and relationships.
- Not ready for the responsibility of loving another or love is taken very seriously
- Doesn’t enter into a relationship lightly or leave relationships easily
- Denying self of love. Self-love denial.
- Wants to make sure one’s love is for REAL! Not trusting love. And the tendency not to want to explore it.
- When someone is interested in you, you turn them away. They can’t possibly love you!
- Being unfriendly and hard on yourself or those that you want to love.
- Not allowing art and beauty into your life. Restricting buying “frivolous” things that beautify, if it’s not practical.
- Not being “attractive”. Not because you are not, but because there’s not a genuine focus on a vibrant approach.
- Stalking or watching persons of interest from afar but not letting them know you are doing it or are interested.
- Loving from afar…. bittersweet and silent romance.
- Not wanting to limit yourself to just one romance or love relationship, especially in case it’s not the right one or won’t be the one to bring a sense of complete love for the long haul.
Synastry Venus Square Saturn
- Something keeps you away from being with each other or allowing love to develop.
- Marriage, divorce, separation, children, relationship, busy career, unaccepted different culture or ethnic group, unaccepted different religion or sexual preference, greatly differing values, going to different schools or living a great distance (different countries) from each other are some reasons why the relationship will not thrive.
- Untouchable…. she or he is so high “above” or “below” me.
- Wanting the one who plays in the relationship, to work.
- Wanting the one who works in the relationship, to play.
- Feeling like a parent or a child.
- Having your love bubble burst or alternatively, feeling a love burden.
- Thinking one of you is not seeing the reality of the relationship.
- Thinking one of you is not open to love in the relationship.
- Getting the feeling that you could almost be together in-love but something always stops one or both of you.
- Longevity of love:Â Over a long period of time, somehow running back into each other but not taking it all the way to something of substance.
- Continuing to maintain the look and feel of a connection when no serious attempt will be made to make it physical.
- Having a long distance relationship. Being always away from each other.
- Having a sizable age difference i.e. 7-14 years — if not by chronology than by maturity or experience.
- Testing each others patience in love.
- One or both of you not wanting to limit the love given to others therefore creating a possible ‘adulterous’ affair.
Mini Brainstorm
Fear of love. Restricting love causes obstacles in having a relationship get off the ground. Being hard in love. Hard on your love. Disciplined love creates conflicts. Detaching affection when stressed. Inhibited from loving another co-cooperatively. Testing lovers, delays a relationship. Adjustments in serious love are important to make. Fear of a relationship creates a block. Frustration over a love that can’t be had due to formal obligations or financial restrictions.
Venus
(Taurus, Libra) Love, affection, art, balance, sensuality, beauty, softness, receptivity, femininity, passivity, happiness, feminine, peace, contentment, nature, earthly pleasures, money, possessions, idealizing, brown & pink, tradition, co-operation, indulgence, service, devoted, the muse, kindness, compassion
Square
(Saturn) = Challenged, blocked, tension, discomfort, conflict, needed adjustments, stubborn, irregular, hang-up, restrain, restrict, shut-off, obstruct, thwart, pressure, stress, struggle, testing, delay; inhibitions, disruption, limitations, and inner conflict (Wikipedia); WizardsNet adds crisis, difficult to integrate. Astrology3D says struggle of two forces at cross-purposes. Obstacles which can bring growth through concentrated effort. Acts like Saturn
Saturn
(Capricorn, Aquarius) = Fear, restriction, discipline, karma, tests, limitations, passive, withdrawn, introverted, more feminine than masculine.
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Florence + The Machine – Dog Days Are Over
Happiness hit her like a train on a track
Coming towards her stuck still no turning back
She hid around corners and she hid under beds
…She killed it with kisses and from it she fled
With every bubble she sank with her drink
And washed it away down the kitchen sink
The dog days are over
The dog days are done
The horses are coming
So you better run
Run fast for your mother, run fast for your father
Run for your children, for your sisters and brothers
Leave all your love and your longing behind
You cant carry it with you if you want to survive
The dog days are over
The dog days are done
Can you hear the horses?
Because here they come
And I never wanted anything from you
Except everything you had and what was left after that too, oh
Happiness hit her like a bullet in the head
Struck from a great height by someone who should know better than that
The dog days are over
The dog days are done
Can you hear the horses?
Because here they come
Run fast for your mother, run fast for your father
Run for your children, for your sisters and brothers
Leave all your loving, your loving behind
You cant carry it with you if you want to survive
The dog days are over
The dog days are done
Can you hear the horses?
Because here they come
The dog days are over
The dog days are done
The horses are coming
So you better run
Thomas Dybdahl – Love Story
honey i told you
that these things never last
and one of these days now
you`ll start dreaming of the past
when life was once too short for all the things we`d do and the shots we`d call
and endless summer without a fall
when promises were meant to keep
and nighttime wasn`t meant for sleep
a love story at it`s peak
doesn`t it feel good
to know that you`ve been loved
and doesn`t it make you
laugh when you think of
the day when we all got lost on the old mans farm
just trying to get across
it was only then i knew what love was
sunday mornings that never ended and hangovers that never mended
a love story at it`s peak
Thomas Dybdahl – It’s Always Been You
sometimes it`s hard to see the change from where you stand
you wake up in a pool of your own selfpity
you try hard to lose whatever dignity she`s left you with
but maybe it`s time to realise that you`re stained but not weak,
calm but not sleak, she`s out of your league
it`s always been you
speak out your name and try to hold a thought for one damn minute
you told me yourself you`d all appreciate a man of thought
cause this is hightrade out, but you would ever have me do for something new
cause in your own stream of thought betray is all you can, desperate man…
it`s always been you
Melody Gardot: Your Heart Is As Black As Night
post originally conceived Nov 6, 2010 @ 16:55
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